BOCA RATON — Miami Dolphins Hall of Fame center Dwight Stephenson has a home-course advantage of sorts for this week’s pro-am for the James Hardie Pro Football Hall of Fame Invitational at Broken Sound. While it’s true that until Wednesday, he’d never played the course, Stephenson knows it well because his daily 6-mile walks from his Delray Beach home encircle Broken Sound. Spending that much time walking around a golf course gives a man plenty of time to reflect. And Dwight Stephenson, 67, has done plenty of it. “Certain things are going to go well,” he said Wednesday, “and that’s good.” But even though he’s a member of the Pro Football Hall of Fame, and even though he joins quarterbacks Dan Marino and Bob Griese as the only Hall of Famers who spent their entire careers with the Dolphins , Stephenson knows what can happen when things don’t go your way. “When things go bad, you can’t just throw your hands up in the air,” Stephenson said. “You have to hang in there and you have to figure out a way to win. Winning ain’t necessarily always on the scoreboard. It’s kind of how you handle situations.” Miami Dolphins NFL draft pick Vontae Davis died at 35. A year later, we have no answers. Never was that more true than on Dec. 7, 1987, in a twist of fate that could rival any in the NFL. The Dolphins were on their way to a 37-28 victory over the visiting New York Jets when two fumbles on a play — one by each team — led to a scramble for the ball. Which led to a hush over the stadium. Stephenson suffered what was clearly a serious knee injury when hit by Jets defensive lineman Marty Lyons — his teammate at Alabama. And in that instant, the career of one of the most-decorated players in Dolphins history was over, victim of nerve damage to the knee that still affects him. Lyons felt so bad he entered the Dolphins’ locker room after the game to console Stephenson. Lyons was angrily confronted by coach Don Shula, who told him he would be “haunted” by the hit for the rest of his life. Shula was right. Speaking recently on the “Out to Pasture” podcast with former Dolphins Kim Bokamper and Joe Rose, Lyons admitted the play haunts him. “I wish I could take that one play back,” he said. To say that time helped Stephenson forgive his college buddy wouldn’t be quite right. “I never really held it against him,” Stephenson said. In fact, Stephenson went on to say, “Marty Lyons is a great guy. He’s doing a lot of good things out here in the community and will continue to do a lot of good things out here in the community. I know on that night Marty did not necessarily mean to be involved with anything that caused me to not play football again. “ … He might have done me a favor. You know what? I could have played one more play or one more year and could have got a more serious injury or whatever. I just thank God for the time He gave me, and then move on to the next thing. Football was a big part of my life. Don’t think I don’t miss it and didn’t want to play again. I gave it everything I could and it’s just that God had another plan for me.”
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